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Hypervigilance

hypervigilance (noun): a state of or tendency towards being overly aware of one’s environment and the potential dangers it presents After leaving our prior church during COVID (in part, due to the leadership decisions about early re-opening and lack of encouraging masks), I haven’t consistently gone to church anywhere. I consider myself spiritual, a Christian, but not religious. I no longer identify with any specific denomination. I sleep in on Sundays and study theology and the Bible throughout the week....

Informed Consent

Last year, in the US, more than 48,000 organs were transplanted. This life-saving procedure is made possible by the generous donation of thousands of Americans who have registered to give their organs upon death or who have been identified as a good match for a friend or loved one, offering a living-donor gift. As a result, thousands of Americans find new life and liberation from dialysis machines or heart pumps. The altruism of donors is inspiring. But all of this...

Stay Angry

I think the word anger gets a bad rap. Anger is a feeling, not an action. Sure, aggression or hostility can emerge from anger, but anger itself is a motivating emotion. The American Psychological Association defines anger as “an emotion characterized by tension and hostility arising from frustration, real or imagined injury by another, or perceived injustice”. The danger in suppressing anger is acceptance, or passivity, to the injustice; tolerance or numbness to the threat. The issue is not anger...

80 Years to Build, 100 Days to Wreck

There is just sheer exhaustion in being an American right now. Every day, there is another barrage of confusing, inexplicable, deeply hurtful news. Deportation without due process. The indiscriminate gutting of essential services like monitoring food safety, cancer research, and weather monitoring. Erasing Black American history and women’s history. Threatening judges and law firms. Employing economic tactics that experts around the globe agree are hurting Americans and people all over the world. Turning our backs on Ukraine. Insulting and breaking...

How Did You Get Here?

I have a special and treasured relationship with my 87-year-old uncle. To most of the world, he’s Father Dennet, a Franciscan priest. But to our family, to me, he’s Uncle Joe. I don’t get to see him often, but he makes a point of calling me every few weeks. And I drop everything and take his call no matter what I’m doing. He’s not a stuffy priest. He is the most welcoming, accepting, kind man I know. He is the...

We Should Stop Asking This Question

Scroll back through your calendar or planner to 2015. Where were you? What were you doing? And if 2025-you asked 2015-you where you saw yourself, and what you wanted to be doing…are you doing it? My money is on…no. You are not. And that’s not a bad thing at all. I just think we are asking ourselves, and each other, the wrong question; dare I say, a dumb question. Recently, I have decided to stop asking myself and those who...

On The Record

Position Piece: A statement that outlines a position on a debatable issue. Persuasive Piece: A work written that tries to convince the reader of the writer’s opinion. Instructions to the reader: The following is a position piece. The reader is encouraged to consider the position as a way to understand better and appreciate the writer. To fully appreciate the piece, it is suggested that the reader refrain from attempts to argue the position presented. First: what I believe, my creed....

Nuance

For weeks, I have been trying to get my thoughts together to write a blog. But my head has been swirling. I can’t seem to keep up, even with voracious reading and podcast listening. I am in the middle of three books, a dozen podcasts I follow religiously, a daily review of news sites, and a Netflix documentary series. It’s exhausting and there is so much coming at us. Emotions are high all around us with the US Election, the...

How Do We Respond?

It seems like hardly a day goes by that I don’t find myself shocked and saddened by yet another story on Christian Nationalism, a Supreme Court ruling, or the antics of Donald Trump. Through my (self-admitted) steady diet of social media, podcasts, and liberal-leaning news, I am always consuming another story about threats to democracy and the scary arc toward fascism. All too often, I find myself anxious and defensive. Just as so many do, I frequently want to respond...

Kindness is Free…

Are you tired? Cause I’m tired. Downright exhausted. A few minutes on social media is a wild ride of vitriol. A few minutes on the news provides enough horror and sadness to leave anyone depressed for days. And all of politics leaves me feeling nauseated. I’m not only exhausted by the overall content and tone of all of the attacks and comments, I am so deeply sad. Sad because the faith that I grew up with has been co-opted into...